Dating Techniques For
Approaching Women

This dating advice article is all about dating techniques for approaching women that make it so much easier for you to come up with things to say to women when you approach them, they teach you how to approach a woman... and lots more.

So let's get down to business!

Approaching Women Technique #1:
When Something's Bothering Me

This technique can be used everywhere, and women like it because u seem sincere and genuinely interested when you say the following. Women are constantly looking for men who are GENUINELY interested in them and not trying to pull off some random pick up. That's why this dating technique works so well.

This is what you do:

You walk up to a female, and you tell her the following:

"I'm sorry but I just had to talk to you! My mom told me that when something bothered me, I had to confront it and get out of my system. So here I am, and I just had to tell you that I think you are totally gorgeous.

... and then you walk away.

Walking away from a woman during ANY conversation shows a high level of confidence, since you're willing to walk away from a woman who's interested in you... which is what virtually no wussbag and practically 9 out of 10 "men" don't dare to do. It's very attractive... which is exactly why I recommend you start doing it more.

When you're approaching women like this, they'll either come after you or look at you all amazed (and interested). That's when you continue the conversation like this:

Her (either sasying or thinking this): "Hey wait a sec, why doyou walk away from me/thanks for the compliment"

You: "well I just had to say it, orelse it would bug me all day''

Her (getting shy and thinking): "Well you got my interest, but now what?"

You: "Give me your number and we can talk later over a drink"

And that's it. This is a sure fire way for approaching women becomes it almost always works, not only because of you acting like you're walking away. It also has to do something with how people are in today's society: compliments are rare, and genuine compliments are almost nowhere to be found... but while want to get them...

By giving a woman a genuine compliment like you just did, you'll have her eating out of the palm of your hand because you stand out in the crowd within seconds...

Technique For Approaching Women #2:
Letting Them Invest
In You

Something I started doing (can't remember for how long I'm doing it) is this: see how most guys try to have a conversation with a woman... and do the complete opposite!

Most men invest a lot of time and energy in trying to come up with things to say, so what I do is let HER come up with something to say.

Why?

The more she invests in you and the conversation, the longer she will stay around. It's the stock market principle: invest 10 bucks and you dont give a crap if a crisis happens, but invest a billion? And you check up on the market every damn hour, know what I mean?

So when you're approaching women, how do you get them to invest in you? By asking women open ended questions... so questions that require thought and not a yes/no answer.

Really simple example of this is comparing her to the environment:

- Classy looking girl in a common man's or shitty neighborhood = "so what's a classy girl like you doing in this poor man's neighborhood?" and you could throw in stuff like "Are you looking to get robbed silly?" to tease her.

- Urban or regular looking girl in the financial district, expensive shopping mall, main street, or rich neighborhood = "so what's a girl like you doing in this classy part of town?" and you could throw in stuff like "Broke and looking to rob someone?" to tease her.

Then simple follow up on her reaction. Say we use the examples I mentioned above...

- Classy girl: "I'm shopping around bla bla bla"
- You: "shopping in 'tha ghetto'? (Use your fingers to make a quote sign) What are you trying to buy... crack?"

And there you go... open ended questions with a tease that get her to invest.

Here's a little tip for approaching women who are shopping. The easiest way to them to invest is by asking "Are you looking for some new clothes to buy?" and off course they respond with a yes and you you say: "what's the occasion?" Then you can simply turn it into a "mini-date" by offering to be her America's Next Top Model jury and by teasing her with what kind of clothes she picks, etc.

Try these dating techniques out for yourself and reap the benefits!

And I’ll talk to you soon,

Your Friend Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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