I always set up the place to be at my place or in my city, so a woman always have to travel home after she sees me. Any man with some dating experience knows that women are absolutely terrified of players who just want their body and aren’t genuinely interested.

It’s likely she’ll feel some “buyer’s remorse” because she isn’t sure about whether you like her or if things between you two are serious. An easy way to prevent that is using my I had fun follow-up.

First off, it takes care of her doubts, but secondly it also makes her remember all the fun things she did with you on that date. It’s letting her remember on purpose how great the date was which makes her want to go on a second date more than usual, and guess when a woman will think about how the date went the most? That very same evening when she’s home.

That’s why I text women about an hour to an hour and a half after the date and here’s how I do it:

“Hey (enter nickname here)! Just wanted to check up on you to make sure you got home safe and sound. Did you? I had so much fun with you today! X”

The typical reply you´ll get: ¨Awh.. that´s sweet! Yeah I had a really great time too blah blah blah :D xx¨

You now know why I said I had so much fun with her, but why say the whole "check up on you to make sure you got home safe?"

Is that what to do after a date to get more success with women? Yes it is! Why?

Simple: being the protector of loved ones creates attraction. By asking if she got home safe, you show that you´ll protect her and keep her safe… and women want that. Gentlemen are hard to find these days while they´re every woman´s fantasy, so just by being that gentleman you already score some points.

Secondly, being the protector of loved ones is attractive to women on a genetic level too. You see, humans have lived in tribes on the plains of Africa and other continents longer than they´ve lived in cities. Civilizations have only been around for like 7.000 years while humans have been around for millions of years.

Looking back to when we were still living in tribes, life was dangerous. Wild animals like lions, elephants, rhinos, they posed a threat to people who were still living in small tribes then. And what about the elements of nature? There weren´t any earthquake proof buildings yet. When wounds got infected? You were lucky if you lived to tell about it, so in that world of danger… guess what being the protector of loved ones meant?

It meant that a woman who was with a more protective man than other men were, had a higher chance of survival than any other woman. Same goes for her offspring. Because of it, women started sexually selecting males that were protective because it helped enhance the survival of the species.

So… using my I had fun follow-up technique is a clever thing to do because it gives you a high chance of going out on a second date with a woman for various reasons. I think THAT'S the what to do after a date masterpiece.

I highly recommend you use this dating technique from here on out.

And I'll talk to you soon,

Your Friend Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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