Why even flirt through text messages when you can call women you ask? Texting women means only being able to create attraction and make a connection with words and that´s it. You probably already know why it can be a disadvantage for you, but did you know that it can also be an advantage?
Think about it… is a flirt through text messages the only way to meet & date women with words?
Hell no! There are these little things called online dating and Instant Messengers (IM) like MSN Messenger or Yahoo Messenger as well. Getting better at creating attraction with words works threefold: you´ll get better at texting, online dating AND using IM to get numbers and to get dates.
Online dating is the one to look out for, because it allows you to meet women whenever you can´t go outside (example: you´re at work, at school, or sick or it´s too cold outside) and get their phone numbers. You can them call and text them to set up a date, so by learning how to flirt through text messages, you get more numbers AND more dates on a regular basis thanks to the internet!
By the way: if you want to know more about online dating, then I highly recommend you check out my program for meeting women online HERE
How To Flirt Through Text Messages
By Using Effective Emoticons
Normally, when you talk to someone they understand the meaning of what you’re saying thanks to your body language. On the phone, it’s all about voice tone. With text messages though, you don’t have that much to convey meaning with: no voice, no body, just letters…
And that has consequences:
- If you try to flirt through text messages without being clear about the meaning, a woman might misunderstand and think you’re insulting her, being rude, being way too serious, etc. and that’s NOT good.
- If you text anyone, you only have a limited amount of space. More on that later, but what it means is that you have to put more meaning in a smaller space which can be tricky to do.
The best way to prevent both problems and to give extra meaning to everything you say is… drumroll please… using emoticons. Didn’t see that one coming huh?
Enough kidding around. If you don’t know what emoticons are then I seriously wonder where you’ve been for the last 20 years or so, but just in case: they’re small smilie faces that you can insert into your text message.
So what meaning do you want to give your text with them? The easiest thing I can come up with is letting a woman know you’re not being serious but are teasing her, but there are many other things you can do with emoticons so let’s look at the best emoticons and how you can use ‘em:
:P – a smilie face with it’s tongue sticking out. It shows you’re definitely not serious but in a playful mood, ready to tease her with something. The great thing about this emoticon is that you can get away with saying pretty much everything when you put it behind your sentence.
Example of talking to a woman who isn’t as tall as you are: “so how tall are you? Are you even allowed entry to any rollercoaster because of your height? :P”
Another one: “Hey midget :P, how are you today?”
I think I rest my case: using :P as a tool for adding more meaning to your playful teases will give you more success with text messages.
:D - a smilie face that’s carrying a big smile around. Although most people use it whenever you’re excited or happy about something, I use it in an entirely different way. I use :D to playfully make fun of a woman who is being a bit too hateful towards me and to show her that I don’t take her comment seriously AT ALL.
Say a woman teases you back, makes a sort of rude remark about you or whatever, then I’ll text her “and I love you too honey! :D” makes a complete fool out of her and it works every time.
(A) – a smilie face with a little halo above it: an angel. On most phones you won’t see the actual smilie being displayed, but the vast majority of people knows what (A) stands for. I use it to pretend like I’m being sweet and innocent while I’m far from it with what I just said.
Say a woman accuses me of being mean or evil, something like that… then I’ll text “evil? ME? But… I’m innocent! I’m my mommy’s little angel! (A)”
Or even better: using (A) when I ask something in return for doing something for her or giving her something. When she asks me what I want in return I’ll text “ohhh… 3 kisses will do just fine (A)” and over time I want more and more outrageous stuff in return. One time I asked a girl to give ma a striptease, lapdance, and a kiss or ten if I would help her download this movie she wanted… and she did it. Thanks to (A).
You shouldn’t bombard a woman with emoticons though by using one every half of a sentence because it pretty much takes away all the impact. Only use it like 3-4 times in one text message, which will be more than enough.
So now you know how to create attraction with text messages, I can imagine you would want to know more about how to call a woman and get a date. If that's the case, I suggest you sign up for my dating newsletter below.
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Your Friend Dennis Miedema
Win With Women
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