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We’re talking male-female relationships here, and they’re HIGHLY overlooked by pretty much everyone out there. Yet becoming friends with an attractive looking girl has SO many advantages when you’re trying to win with women, that it boggles my mind! I can’t believe most men out there are so BORING in their friendships, damn…it almost hurts my feelings! Here they are:
- Your female oracle: so you started talking to this really cute girl, spend a whole lot of time having fun with her, generating attraction, and at the end of the road…she turns out to be ‘just another friend.’ Friends, FEMALE friends to be exact, have advantages however.
When you’re learning how to pick up women, what the game is, how to kiss them and all that…who’s your best teacher? WOMEN! Ask them what kind of messages boring guys always send her on her profile, what to do in your current situation with this or that other girl, what turns her completely off during a date, what requests, questions, and behaviors creeps her out, how females ‘play the game’, why she thinks playboys are so successful with women, what’s men neglect to do before/during/after sex, etc.
Don’t ask A question like ‘what do women like in men’ (because attraction is based on FEELING, not logic…it happens subconsciously so asking the conscious mind is a mistake…it doesn’t know), it’s about asking the RIGHT questions…specific ones like those I suggested just now. You’ll have TONS of fun and you’ll be surprised at what they’ll admit to you! They’ll even tell you what they use when it comes to washing it down there…I’m not kidding!
So view EVERY female as your oracle…and LEARN from her. The more experienced you are, the better your become friends-date ratio is…and guess what speeds up the process? EXACTLY!
- Your female playing ground: us humans tend to view dates (our sexual relationships) as more important than our friendships, and as such... we’re usually more afraid of losing our partner then losing our friends. Say, you learn a new technique, skill or some ‘move’ (whether it’s body language or something else)…but you’re not sure if it will REALLY work on women. Say, you want to sharpen the conversational knife or so to speak to really have a good conversation with a woman you approach next time. Say, you want to discover the best places to isolate a girl so you can kiss her (or better) in any setting (club, shopping mall, etc.) or want to learn how to dance. What do you do?
If you take your partner or would-be partner and you mess up or admit you need improvement in this or that area, you’ve either just killed ALL the attraction or you have a serious fixer-upper on your hands there. Guess who come to the rescue? Your female friends do! Try it out…and if it doesn’t work? Look for improvement points and try it on the next one…until you either know you’ve MADE it work…or whatever you’re trying to do doesn’t work at all. Females…your ultimate playing ground, your test factory.
- Your female connector: if you tell a woman about your ambitions straight up, whatever they may be (except for starting crime scenes, lol!) and ask if she knows someone who can help? Nine out of ten times she’ll know someone who has either done it already, is trying to do it OR knows someone knows some other guy who does. Females are very keen on their social alliances, so why not use them to your advantage? I’ve had MULTIPLE female friends of mine introduce me to this or that guy who’s a natural in the game after I told them I wanted to win with women because I love interacting with them!
- Your female matchmaker: are you kidding me? Women LOVE to match people in the name of love, same actually make a fulltime hobby out of it! Just think about it…women are very keen on social alliances and thus tend to have a strong and/or large social circle. Most likely that large social circle will contain other women, so why not let them introduce you to their niece/classmate/sister/colleague/workout friend/neighbor/friend/associate or sometimes maybe even their mother? If you reward her for it by introducing HER to a male in your social circle…a cousin/classmate/brother/etc.? You’ll actually STIMULATE her doing it!
And remember…even if it doesn’t click with that one, why not befriend her and let her introduce you to HER niece/classmate/sister/etc.? Did you know that a study has proven that it actually IS a small world…where we are connected to every other person on earth through only 6.8 links? Google it…and then imagine what happens if you befriend 6.8 females…
These four factors together make up my “Female Mastermind Group”, or group of wingwomen, wing girls, playettes, playsters, female pick up artists... whatever you'd like to call it. So next time you think about dismissing a girl because she doesn't have a sexual interest in you? Think again, and turn her into a valued member of your social circle who introduces other women to you!
Don't get me started about how many I've met thanks to getting introduced (a LOT) or what kind of adventures I've experienced because of it because the woman who introduced me was kind of interested in me too, but was willing to share...
Social circle game, and then specifically getting introduced by one woman to another, is like a gift from God... so use it to your advantage from here on out to get more dates!
Cheers!
Your Friend Dennis Miedema
Win With Women
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